Monday 4 November 2024

Baker's 2024 Holiday



In August 2022 we took Baker on a trip to celebrate his 10th Birthday. He loved it so much that we went to the same place again in June 2023, but it wasn't as good as the year before. So this year we packed up our car and headed out on a 'wild camping trip' to the Highlands...














Our first port of call should have been a sign that this trip wasn't going to go to plan. We went to the Scottish Seabird Centre in North Berwick but we didn't even stay 30 mins. The weather was scorching, the town was packed, the tourists were rude and my Autism was like 'No thanks!'. One day Josh and I will head back up without Baker specifically to see Bass Rock but until then I'd like to erase this visit from my mind!
After trying (and failing) to get Baker to have dinner, we got back in the car to head for our campsite.






A lot of driving later we needed to take a toilet and leg stretch break. I have no idea where this was but wasn't it stunning?!

















Arriving nice and early we secured our park up somewhere North of Pitlochry. Gorgeous but very open to the elements and although sunny it was very windy. While Mr H sorted tea, I had a paddle to try and calm my stress but after the day we'd had I wasn't feeling great. It would seem that Baker was struggling too because yet again he refused to eat so after we humans ate, we retreated to the car for cuddles and to read before settling down to sleep.
The next day the route was to head North towards Ullapool, sleep our second night somewhere in the middle of nowhere, that morning stop by Loch Ness and drive towards Loch Lommand to find a campsite. On our last day, we would then head East again and go home but that is not what happened. 
The holiday was cut extra short as we decided that if Baker wasn't eating it wasn't safe or fair to stay away from home. When we woke up the weather was telling us to go too as the winds had been joined by lots of rain. 












Determined not to leave completely defeated and as Loch Ness was only an hour and a bit North we trudged on with the hopes of getting a family photo with Nessie. Allt Na Criche forest seemed like a great place for a walk and apparently had viewpoints that you could see the Loch from. This is where I underestimated how bad my chronic pain had gotten and the steep hike pushing a dog buggy was brutal. With no viewpoints in sight and limited signage, we looped back down the hill to the car, fired up the camping stove and had vegan bacon sandwiches to fuel us for the drive home. 
I was completely gutted and as a last attempt to salvage something of this holiday, we went against our usual actions and parked in the centre of town. We managed to find a small 'trampled' path off to the side of the main 'Loch Ness' tourist sign away from other people. Here Baker had a paddle, got his photo taken and said hello/goodbye to Nessie.

One thing that gave us a huge boost and led to many smiles on the drive home, was this super cute honesty box we passed on a random road. We actually saw it but were passed before we realized what it was so we went and turned to come back. We adopted a handmade pet Haggis and got a couple of pick-me-up snacks for the drive.

We got home later that day, around 6/7 hours later. It was pretty sad that Baker's 3rd annual camping trip didn't go to plan but we're lucky that we were able to have the trip we had and that on the way home, at a service station of all places, Baker finally ate! It seems he just wasn't keen on the bowl he had to use haha. He's a particular boy just like his Mam.


To see our successful trips from 2022 and 2023 see below...



Friday 1 November 2024

Marriage Lvl.5 Complete

 

Five years married, six together. Forever to go. 
This is my one time of year to be overly sentimental and spout sickening sentences about my relationship. In general, I think I'm quite a private person. Despite having blogs, I don't actually post much online nor overshare on social media and that's how it should be. No one needs to know anything about me or my life, but as we celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary I would like to share a little.

My husband (and saying that word never gets less fun) is probably the best person I have ever met. So much so that I often wonder what I did to deserve someone so amazing and also worry about him being taken away from me in any way. He is kind, caring, and patient. He constantly goes above and beyond to make me happy, shares my values and is incredibly hard-working. 
In this relationship, I have gone from being someone who worked multiple jobs and was in charge of all of the financial responsibilities, to being looked after and having a true man of the house who deals with everything important and anything that would cause me stress. 
Serious subjects apart, we have fun together. We enjoy the same activities, fandoms, styles etc. Times flies when you are having fun and this past year has definitely flown.

29th November 2023 - Our Back Garden, Home


25th December 2023 - Beamish Woods, Stanley


24th January 2024 - Berwick Quayside, Berwick Upon Tweed


28th February 2024 - The Customs House, South Shields


11th March 2024 - St Abbs Head, Eyemouth


30th April 2024 - Cayton Bay, Scarborough


20th May 2024 - Vic Robins Hide, Wader Lake, WWT Washington


3rd June 2024 - Near Dalnaspidal, Pitlochry


30th July 2024 - Our Back Garden, Home


27th August 2024 - Woofing Woods, Leeds


16th September 2024 - Berwick Walls


28th October 2024 - Seven Sisters, Houghton-le-Spring


In the past year we've been lucky enough to have some lovely adventures together and some stand-out memories include:
- Our annual Samhain and Halloween celebrations
- Sharing the first Sunrise of 2024 together at Marsden Bay
- Seeing Circus of Horrors again, at Customs House
- Going to our first gig together. Bowling for Soup!
- Becoming a two-car household
- Finally visiting St Abbs Head
- We got Baker a buggy and had many walks
- Officially joining the RSPB and visiting Saltholme and Bempton Cliffs
- Camping in the Highlands and a flying visit to Loch Ness
- A rainy day at Northumberland Zoo
- Getting to explore Ad Gefrin museum 
- Taking Baker to Northumberlandia
- Celebrating Baker's 12th birthday at Woofing Woods
- Lots of awesome days at Washington Wetlands

There have been hard moments too, of course, we all have them but through all the ups and downs our relationship has been the light that keeps me going. I would not be the person I am or where I am without the strength and dedication of Mr H. His talent and work ethic are what keep the roof over our heads, the food in our tummies and allow us to have magical experiences together... 
We never know what the future holds, but the next 12 months will be special no matter what as long as my husband is by my side. 

I know you don't really read my blog, but if you are reading this thank you. I absolutely adore you and appreciate every little thing you do for me and our pets. I love you more than I can even express, especially due to the 'tism haha. You are my best friend, forever. 

31/10/19 - 'till death (and beyond).

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Check out our previous anniversary blog posts below -
Marriage Lvl.1 Complete
Marriage Lvl.2 Complete
Marriage Lvl.3 Complete
Marriage Lvl.4 Complete